Private Religious Academy Schools Public School CEO's Children
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Note: this photo appeared on PMCA's website and appears here in reference to the article below, an interview with Paul Vallas' wife, Sharon.
"Q: Your husband says it was part of a "premarital agreement" that your children would attend Christian schools, not public ones. True?
A: True. I'm Presbyterian, Paul's Greek Orthodox. Religion's important to us. I want the kids to have the freedom to talk about God and Jesus Christ in their everyday lives, and pray for themselves or for each other without any problems in the way."
Paper: Philadelphia Daily News (PA)
Title: Vallas also follows the rules - SCHOOL CHIEF'S EX-COP WIFE 'TELLS ME WHAT TO DO'
Author: RONNIE POLANECZKY
Date: August 6, 2003
Section: LOCAL
Page: 09
AT WORK, he's a take-no-prisoners CEO, charging through the Philadelphia School District, firing commands at an entourage of order-takers forever at his heels. But at home?"My wife was a cop," says Paul Vallas. "She tells me what to do." Ah, yes, the ex-cop spouse. Talk to Vallas long enough, and the fact that his wife, Sharon, used to bust perps for a living eventually makes its way into the conversation. When it does, he always sounds like he's bragging. "Sharon's great," he says proudly. "She's got a cop's great instincts - she's smart, patient and real no-nonsense. She'd have to be, to deal with me."
Sharon Vallas doesn't disagree. Especially after the past 12 months, when her husband - in his inaugural year as the district's top dog - spent far more time at Parkway headquarters than in the Chestnut Hill home the family shares with their three sons. "I tell him, 'Thank goodness I'm independent, or you'd be in trouble,' " she said of the many nights she has played single mom to their three boys, aged 14, 12 and 11. I recently chatted with friendly, younger-looking-than- 46 Sharon Vallas about pulling up her family's deep Chicago roots to come east to Philly.
When I met her at her home, her husband had just gotten in the door from work. As we talked, the boys - who are very, very tall and unabashedly affectionate with him and each other - climbed on the CEO like he was a piece of gym equipment.
Q: You used to carry a gun, eh?
A: Yeah. In the Palos Heights Police Department [in Illinois]. I was a dispatcher for four years, then on the street for five. I was the department's first full-time female police officer.
Q: Did you always want to be a cop?
A: I didn't know what I wanted to be until I was about 16. In high school, I waitressed at the restaurant Paul's family owns; Paul worked the register on weekends home from college - that's how we met, although we didn't know for about 10 years that we'd eventually be an item. A lot of police officers ate at the counter, and I'd ask them, "What kind of calls do you get? What do you do out there?" Their stories fascinated me and made me think I'd like police work. They encouraged me to give it a try.
Q: How do the kids like Philly?
A: They've adjusted really well. They love school. They're doing sports. One just got an electric guitar. They're very independent and sociable. When they squawk about missing home, I tell them, "You now have friends in Philly and Chicago, and who could ever say that?"
Q: Do they buy it?
A: Pretty much.
Q: Do you?
A: I love it here. It's so hilly and pretty, compared to the Midwest. I'll always miss Chicago. I was born and raised there, our friends and family are there, so it's hard to drop all of that. But that's what the phone is for.
Q: Your husband's hours look insane.
A: It was worse in Chicago, really. But it didn't matter so much, because we lived near our families. When Paul was late, I'd take the kids to their grandparents, or we'd get a pizza and bum with the cousins. To be honest, there were so many people around, it never seemed like he was away . . .[Moving] made the boys closer, though; they rely more on each other. What I miss is girl talk - going to a cafe at night with a good girlfriend, you know, after Paul gets home and the kids are in bed. It can be a little lonely. But people have been so nice here, so I'm making friends.
Q: Your husband says it was part of a "premarital agreement" that your children would attend Christian schools, not public ones. True?
A: True. I'm Presbyterian, Paul's Greek Orthodox. Religion's important to us. I want the kids to have the freedom to talk about God and Jesus Christ in their everyday lives, and pray for themselves or for each other without any problems in the way.
Q: Before coming to Philly,your husband almost won the primary for governor of Illinois. What was that like?
A: It sounds crazy, but it was almost a whim for him to run. We knew he could do the job - he'd been revenue director and head of schools in Chicago, and he was a revenue analyst for a senator . . . So we said, "Let's just do it!" We had zero money, we knew nothing about running for office, and yet we came within 1 percent of winning the primary. The campaign staff was so upset; they'd worked their tails off. But we were thrilled we even got that close.
Q: Any chance there's a Philly mayoral run in the future?
A: Don't even go there. Don't even think about it. Running for office would be fine if it was just about your good name and your record. But you have to raise so much money, it feels like begging. Paul would rather stay with the schools and build on everything he learned in Chicago.
Q: Speaking of Chicago schools, Paul said it was your idea to introduce a required community-service component to the curriculum there.
A: We tell kids all the time how important it is to give back to the community, but kids are kids - you've got to make them do things if you want them to get into the habit of it. They have to learn that it feels good to give.
Q: Speaking of which, I hear you're joining Town Watch?
A: Yeah, in the fall, after the boys go back to school. I saw a sign in a Chestnut Hill store asking people to sign up for daytime shifts. After you've been a cop, you feel like you're on watch half the time anyway. I might as well put it to good use. *
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School district CEO Paul Vallas and his wife, Sharon.
Author: RONNIE POLANECZKY
Section: LOCAL
Page: 09
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